How do your ex-spouses impact your current family?

How do your ex-spouses impact your current family life? What have been your challenges and solutions?

How do you handle children that just DON'T listen?

I am having a very tough time with my youngest one and getting them to actually do what they are asked. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get kids motivated other than candy or rewards? Isn't it part of growing up to learn responsibility?

What is your biggest marital challenge?

Tell us in five words or more what your biggest marital challenge is and read comments posted by others on theirs and how they have overcome them.